Marriage may never be perfect, but it can be amazing to experience and live through. Feeling safe with one another and knowing that it will be ok and the hard times will pass. It should feel amazing having their best friend with them all the time. Both will encourage each other goals and will have to sacrifice a few things for each other, but it should not be unexpected. Not just necessarily starting a family like most people may think but getting to genuinely love being with each others company and knowing that both will take care of each other. Being married does have its difficult moment a lot of unexpected issues will come, but there should be more focus on the decisive moments. Through the hardships and the good times, they will always be committed to each other and work hard at what they do not just by themselves but with each other. Marriage should bind two people who genuinely care about each other and will love each other no matter what can happen. There should be an understanding of what they both want in the future on what they both have thought about and have their heart set on. Thinking it through and knowing that are ready to find a particular person to share a wonderful life with is impressive. Marriage should not be seen or pressured as something that we all have to do. With marriage comes much responsibility, both of them are planning on growing older together and learning about each other every day. A happy marriage involves even if hardships emerge or whatever the problem will be, and they will both know that whatever it is they will both find a solution and not let the issue or issues become an obstacle in the marriage. Those are two very different feelings with can be easily confused if the couple does not know each other well. Things can get complicated if the person confuses love with lust. It is imperative to know that they love this person that they have fallen in love. It is not just about thinking they have found the right person it is about knowing that that person is the right person. To make a marriage last isn’t complicated but both will have to work hard every single day to make it work.’The people who have stable, happy relationships are much gentler with one another than people who have unhappy relationships'(Miller, par. At the beginning of the relationship, it was mostly about self-revelation but as the relationship develops into something more severe as marriage it involves unity and communication.Ī successful marriage involves being on the same page. Both should be equally willing to make adjustments in the relationship when needed both should be comfortable with speaking to each other about issues brought up. With marriage, they have become a family, a team. There shouldn’t be fighting, but there should be a healthy way to get to an agreement ultimately. Couples can argue for small issues like these, personal space and trust improve a relationship with the correct boundaries. There should be trust and lots of respect for matters like these. ‘Self-assured partners believe in their core worth - and are not afraid to reveal how that makes them worthy as a mate’ (Schwartz, par. There should be a right balance with spending time together and spending time apart. Love is essential and critical, but there’s so much more as well. Love is like a recipe there need to be ingredients for it to come together as one. The more mature two people learn to be the more depth of understanding they will have of what love truly means. They both will learn to love each other more in ways they never thought they could. The happiness is a crucial factor, but it will come and go, being a successful coupe would involve learning to intentionally do things that will bring the joy back when the difficulties of life might pull it away. ‘Marriage is supposed to be free of the coercion, violence, and gender inequalities that were tolerated in the past’ (Coontz 8). The right person will support and encourage whatever they choose to pursue. It will give them time to search for the best path to take. When practicing good habits in the present, it will lead up to practicing good habits in the future for a healthy relationship. Practicing self-care and healthy boundaries are valuable to manage. With being independent, they will fulfill their desires and set out goals to achieve them. With being happy with themselves, they will not feel the need to be rushing anything. Patience comes with knowing what they want. They can think about the qualities they dislike and like in a person, that way if someone comes along he or she can see if that person connects with them. With time they can think about what they are looking in a person.
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